This question has been haunting me for a bit. So I figured I'd throw it up here.
First off, I am married. And I work in an industry where there is a lot of "schmoozing" with clients.
I am about to go take a client from out of town out for lunch. Hit him up to make sure we're on. And he asks me about massage parlors.
I know of a few in my area. One in particular is supposedly crazy nice and clean. It's like a men's spa. Has saunas n' %$$*. Has been in the same location forever.
And the place is famous for the legendary "happy ending". Which is what said client is looking for.
I have never been but I have friends who go. Married, in relationships, completely single. They rave about it and have tried to get me to go for years.
So......is this "cheating"?
I am incredibly honest with my wife. She knows me and knows what I do. My job almost requires me to be in strip clubs and studios. I get lap dances. Never goes beyond that.
If she asks, I tell. But this is one I'm iffy on.
So is this kind of massage over the line if you are in a relationship?
The other issue here is.....do you go with the client anyway, because ultimately, it's business?
(Before y'all wild out, you aren't in the same room or anything from what I am told. You roll in together, there is a room where a girl showers the guy one at a time and then you go into a room with your masseuse).
Curious as to what people think about this. It was an awesome episode of "Curb Your Enthusiasm" once too.
I'll pop back in after lunch. Bring it on!
Mods, if inappropriate, my apologies. Lock it up.
But it's real.......